We create our own reality. It is your choice how you want to view life.  If you believe that life is  scary, tumultuous and hard - ultimately that is the energy that you will attract into your life.  Don't get me wrong, life can be very hard at times as we all come across obstacles, health difficulties and losing loved ones.  However we make a choice of where to put our focus.  You probably know the saying 'where focus goes, energy flows.'  We make a choice everyday about where to place our energy.  If we can make a conscious effort to place our energy on the positive - we can create the life we love and create ways to accomplish our dreams!  Keep creating babes!